New Life, New year, Taking lessons from Avatar : The Last Airbender.

A new year comes to me soon, believe you me.  I have a really strong feeling that this year will be full of change . I feel the universe changing colours around me .

And as scary that this might apparently look like, I have a new sense of hope, I feel the summer end to a new fall, but a fall like no other, a fall of colours, that now seem beautiful, red, orange, brown, and windy, a stormy fall which ‘ll bring more maturity, sense , and tranquillity .

I feel like Zuko of the Fire nation, letting go of pride, and a dream that ‘ll never be true, for destiny has another path. I feel lighter and more determined than I have ever felt in my entire existence. I have a newer path, now i know what my destiny shall be.
Just like Prince Zuko realised his destiny was to bring peace between an entire nation and the rest of Avatar universe.

I ‘ve realised now, that i am not somebody who has happy relationships , be it Love , a Lover , A best friend, or even Family.

I accept what my destiny is, and now i shall shape it . Just as i would like it to be. Some destinies are to be shaped ,while others are set in stone  .

Just like Katara was able to become a water-bending master in such a short time, with fierce determination and hard work.

I believe that with fierce determination and hard work i can be successful in anything i put my mind to

I think everyone can learn from Aang and the gang.

Tof never gave up on earth bending even though she was blind.  She became the first metal-bender, teaching Aang how to use vibrations in the earth to bend better than any other. She had two wonderful daughters . Both Metal-benders . She was able to help “Twinkle-toes” over two of his lifetimes.

Katara did not take no for an answer from a teacher who insisted that girls do not learn water – bending and would not teach her  , even becoming a master herself, eventually becoming the Avatar ‘s teacher . She made friends with many people  , she also become a mother to three wonderful benders, : Tenzin, Kaya and Bumie. Even helping Aang in his next lifetime as best as she could. She was able to blood-bend too.

Sokka never let the fact that he was a non-bender make him any less a warrior, he learnt swordsmanship from a man who was adamant not to take any new students ,he also strived to make humour his ally in many situations, Sokka was a great tracker and mystery solver, he solved many such cases in the length of the show. He is a great brother, friend and Warrior.

Prince Zuko ,an individual i connect with so well, he was not a perfect child, not a perfect friend, he struggled his whole childhood and adolescence to fit in, he was able to give up his presumed destiny of capturing Aang, and choosing to become a better person and not let life tell him what to do. He was able to learn the dance of the dragons, dance with the masters, get one as his guide, and teach Aang Fire-bending, and realise that fire is not just destruction but also life. Zuko not only created a whole new life for himself, he had the courage to stand up to a society that was doing wrong. Zuko become a different person and created history, by becoming a new fire-lord who led the fire-nation to peace and diplomatic relations with the other nations. And become the best friend of Aang. He stayed best friends with the Avatar over two lifetimes.

Avatar Aang become the  youngest Avatar to master all four elements, he set a standard for all future Avatars. He was kind, and valued life, yet living like a humble monk ,with great bending-abilities.  He was able to learn how to take bending away from horrible people.


The two faces of Her.


Deep within her soul, she yearns for another

Yet in front of the universe, she puts on a show

She lives for herself in her dreams, yet hides her colours under cloaks of ashen grey

She looks calm and peaceful, yet underneath she ‘s a stormy sea

She weaves a web, a web of disguise.

Two lives she lives, two people she is.

One who ‘s her and another she hides behind.

True her ,is a person yearning for half of herself, the half she ‘s never met ,seen or heard of.

The untrue her is a lie, a confident, bubbly , talkative, strong shield, who does not need her other half.

The true her wants roots, to keep her steady, to be the earth, stubborn and thriving in all weather.

The untrue her wishes for friends and audience, to put on a show, a show of strength, of traits the true her boasts not but possesses.

The Disguise she wears is of a happy-go-lucky.

But once its off she yearns for a successful life, a dream she holds, she desires her other half, but wishes to be a successful ,strong, independent human being.

She is an individual with latent qualities, but the Show is always a success.

An Angel is born …. : -)

It was an early morning in August, a child was being born ……

A young baby girl, with inquisitive eyes, and intelligent glances was born.

It was 12th August 2001 , a young Mishti was born  ,

Today , many years later, i see how blessed that day was.

During that time, I had no idea how lucky i was to have a younger sibling such as Mishti …

She has proven to be a delightful baby,  a bubbly toddler, a cute infant,  a hardworking student,  an obedient daughter  , a wonderful human being and most importantly, a caring and amazing sibling , whom i would cherish as long as i shall live .

She means very much to me… and i would say apart from my parents, i love her most ….

Today is her 14th Birthday, and i thank the creator for a wonderful Sister and my most cherished gift in this world ….

A zillion thanks to The Creator …..

Life advices for those of the 21st century.

1. There are plenty of ways to enter a pool🏊. The stairs is not one of them.

2. Never cancel dinner plans by text message📱.

3. Don’t knock it ‘til you try it.

4. If a street performer makes you stop walking, you owe him a buck💵.

5. Always use “we” when referring to your home team or your government.

6. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.

7. DON’T underestimate free throws in a game of HORSE🏇.

8. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.

9. Don’t dumb it down.

10. You only get one chance to notice a new haircut.

11. If you’re staying more than one night, unpack.

12. Never park in front of a bar.

13. Expect the seat in front of you to recline. Prepare accordingly.

14. Keep a picture of your first fish, first car, and first girl/boyfriend.

15. Hold your heroes to a high standard.

16. A suntan is earned, not bought.

17. Never lie to your doctor.

18. All guns🔫 are loaded.

19. Don’t mention sunburns. Believe me, they know.

20. The best way to show thanks is to wear it. Even if it’s only once.

21. Take a vacation from your cell phone, internet, and TV once a year.

22. Don’t fill up on bread, no matter how good it is.

23. A handshake beats an autograph.

24. Don’t linger in the doorway. In or out.

25. If you choose to go in drag, don’t sell yourself short.

26. If you want to know what makes you unique, sit for a caricature.

27. Never get your haircut the day of a special event.

28. Be mindful of what comes between you and the Earth. Always buy good shoes👟, tires, and sheets.

29. Never eat lunch at your desk if you can avoid it.

30. When you’re with new friends, don’t just talk about old friends.

31. Eat lunch with the new kids.

32. When traveling, keep your wits about you.

33. It’s never too late for an apology.

34. Don’t pose with booze.

35. If you have right of way, TAKE IT.

36. You don’t get to choose your own nickname.

37. When you marry someone, remember you marry their entire family.

38. Never push someone off a dock.

39. Under no circumstances should you ask a woman if she is pregnant.

40. It’s not enough to be proud of your ancestry, live up to it.

41. Don’t make a scene.

42. When giving a thank you speech, short and sweet is best.

43. Know when to ignore the camera.

44. Never gloat.

45. Invest in great luggage.

46. Make time for your mom on your birthday, It’s her special day too.

47. When opening presents🎁, no one likes a good guesser.

48. Sympathy is a crutch, never fake a limp.

49. Give credit. Take Blame.

50. Suck it up every now and again.

51. Never be the last one in the pool.

52. Don’t stare.

53. Address everyone that carries a firearm professionally.

54. Stand up to bullies. You’ll only have to do it once.

55. If you’ve made your point, stop talking.

56. Admit it when you’re wrong.

57. If you offer to help don’t quit until the job is done.

58. Look people in the eye when you thank them.

59. Thank the 🚍bus driver.

60. Never answer the 📞phone at the dinner table.

61. Forgive yourself for your mistakes.

62. Know at least one good joke.

63. Don’t boo. Even the ref is somebody’s son.

64. Know how to cook one good meal.

65. Learn to drive a stick shift.

66. Be cool to younger kids. Reputations are built over a lifetime.

67. It’s okay to go to the movies by yourself.

68. Dance with your mother/father.

69. Don’t lose your cool. Especially at work.

70. Always thank the host.

71. If you don’t understand, ask before it’s too late.

72. Know the size of your boyfriend/girlfriend’s clothes.💯

73. There is nothing wrong with a plain t-shirt.

74. Be a good listener. Don’t just take your turn to talk.

75. Keep your word.

76. In college always sit in the front. You’ll stand out immediately. Come grade time it might come in handy.

77. Carry your mother’s bags. She carried you for 9 months.🆗

78. Be patient with airport security. They are just doing their job.

79. Don’t be the talker in a movie.

80. The opposite sex likes people who shower.🆒

81. You are what you do. Not what you say.

82. Learn to change a tire.🆗

83. Be kind. Everyone has a hard fight ahead of them.

84. An hour with grandparents is time well spent. Ask for advice when you need it.

85. Don’t litter.🚮

86. If you have a sister, get to know her boyfriend. Your opinion is important.

87. You won’t always be the strongest of fastest. But you can be the toughest.

88. Never call someone before or after 9 AM🕘 and 9PM.🕘

89. Buy the orange properties in Monopoly.

90. Make the little things count.

91. Always wear a bra at work.

92. There is a fine line between looking sultry and slutty. Find it.

93. You’re never too old to need your mom.

94. Ladies, if you make the decision to wear👠 heels on the first date commit to keeping them on and toning down how much your feet kill.🙍

95. Know the words to your national anthem.

96. Your dance moves might not be the best, but I promise making a fool of yourself is more fun than sitting on the bench alone.

97. Smile at strangers.

98. Make Goals.

99. Being old is not dictated by your bedtime.:D

100. If you HAVE to fight, punch first and punch hard.